{"id":1848,"date":"2018-09-13T23:50:48","date_gmt":"2018-09-13T23:50:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/?p=1848"},"modified":"2018-09-13T23:50:48","modified_gmt":"2018-09-13T23:50:48","slug":"afghanistan-children-or-brides","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/2018\/09\/13\/afghanistan-children-or-brides\/","title":{"rendered":"Afghanistan: Children or Brides"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"LTR\">Officials in the north-western Afghan province of Badghis fear that poverty fuelled by an ongoing drought is leading to rising rates of child and forced marriage.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">The legal age for marriage in Afghanistan is 16, although it can be as low as 15 with parental consent.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">A joint report by the ministry of labour, social affairs, martyrs and disabled and UNICEF on child marriage, released in July 2018, showed that at least one family member was married before the age of 18 in 42 per cent of households across Afghanistan.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">However, reported instances of child marriage in the household were much higher in the deeply conservative province of Badghis, at 55 per cent.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Najibullah Azimi is head of child protection at the provincial department of labour and social affairs.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">He told IWPR that over the past 18 months they had logged around 70 cases of child marriage but noted that this was unlikely to reflect the true extent of the phenomenon.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cWe only have three employees in the centre, in Qali Naw, who are responsible for registering cases of underage marriage,\u201d he said. \u201cHowever, we have neither offices nor employees in the remaining five districts of Badghis to track down and record such cases. We understand that the number of underage girls being sold or given in forced marriage is much higher in the districts and the villages.\u201d<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Azimi said that the current drought was a major factor, driving many families into financial hardship. Afghan grooms generally pay a hefty bride price to their in-laws, and families often cite poverty as a reason for early marriage.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cThe drought in Badghis has escalated this year, and has caused many personal and family problems,\u201d Azimi continued. \u201cOne of the problems is that families sell their underage daughters to much older men.\u201d<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Zarghona Shirzad, provincial director of women\u2019s affairs, also said that the true figure was much higher than that available to her colleagues in the department of labour and social affairs.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cThese figures cannot even present part of the true statistics,\u201d she continued, explaining that most underage marriages were never reported to governmental bodies. In more remote areas, girls had no kind of access to official institutions to report their plight.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">In such a situation, Shirzad continued, she focused on the most extreme cases.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cAs the director of women\u2019s affairs, I am most concerned about the girls aged between 10 and 15 who become victims of forced marriages to men aged 60 or 70,\u201d she said. \u201cIn this way, girls are deprived of any kind of comfort in their lives.\u201d<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">She highlighted the case of Zargar, who was a 14-year-old schoolgirl when she was sold for 14,000 US dollars to a 65 year-old man in March 2017.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Zargar endured two months in her new husband\u2019s home in Qarchi village in Qadis district, until the abuse she experienced there forced her to return to her own village of Chashm-e-Shirin.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cMy parents had taught me that whatever my husband tells me, I should accept and follow,\u201d she told IWPR, explaining that her husband, his brothers and even his other wives hit her, pulled her hair out and humiliated her.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cThey would beat me because I did not know how to cook and wash clothes properly,\u201d the teenager said.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Zargar said that she had registered her ill-treatment with the provincial department of women\u2019s affairs and wanted local officials to help her get a divorce.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">For her part, Shirzad said that she had advised Zargar to stay at her father\u2019s house until the court delivered their verdict.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Zargar\u2019s father Abdul Manan told IWPR that he now regretted selling his daughter into marriage.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cCome what may, I will have my daughter divorced from her cruel husband,\u201d he said, explaining that he had been deep in debt and felt he had no choice.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cI was a rich man, and had a herd of sheep, but selling it did not fetch enough money to clear what I owed,\u201d Manan continued. \u201cI realized that I had nothing else but my daughter to sell and settle my debts.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Even those who manage to file cases with the prosecutors\u2019 office often find themselves unable to conclude them.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Angila Sayedi, a women\u2019s rights prosecutor in Badghis, said that last year 12 girls who had lodged complaints about their husbands\u2019 behaviour had gone on to withdraw them.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Without support from local government officials, many girls and young women are too vulnerable to pursue their legal cases.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Shayesta was married last February aged just ten years old. The girl, from the village of Qarcheghi, told IWPR that her brother had sold her for 10,000 dollars to a man who already had several other wives.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Her mother-in-law, sisters-in-law and fellow wives were all violent to her, she continued.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cOne day, my sisters-in-law and my husband\u2019s other wives got so angry with me they attacked me with acid,\u201d Shayesta said. \u201cI would have died if our neighbours had not arrived to rescue me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">Shayesta said that wanted to divorce her husband as soon as possible but needed government support to do so.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"LTR\">\u201cI am afraid that my husband might kill me because of the divorce issue,\u201d she concluded.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Officials in the north-western Afghan province of Badghis fear that poverty fuelled by an ongoing drought is leading to rising rates of child and forced marriage. The legal age for marriage in Afghanistan is 16, although it can be as low as 15 with parental consent. A joint report by the ministry of labour, social affairs, martyrs and disabled and&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/2018\/09\/13\/afghanistan-children-or-brides\/\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":110,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[36],"class_list":["post-1848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article-post","tag-iwpr-net"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/110"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1848"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1848\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1850,"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1848\/revisions\/1850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baileyonlineclassroom.com\/southandcentralasiablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}